🌿 Part 1: Introduction – The Fire That Eats Good Deeds
Envy is not just wishing you had what others have.
It is secretly wishing they would lose it —
and feeling bitter that Allah gave it to them, not you.
Bitterness corrodes the heart quietly:
“Why them? Why not me?”
It blocks gratitude, drowns barakah, and strangles love between souls.
🌿 Part 2: The Origin of Envy
- Envy often begins from:
- Childhood comparisons,
- Cultural obsession with status,
- Unhealed feelings of inadequacy.
- At its core, envy is forgetting Allah’s personalized wisdom for every soul.
🌿 Part 3: How Envy Destroys the Heart
The Cycle of Bitterness
- Comparison Begins
- Observing others’ blessings.
- Internal Devaluation
- “I am less than them.”
- Resentment Forms
- “They don’t deserve it.”
- Poison Spreads
- Hatred, depression, loss of gratitude.
- Barakah is Lost
- Envy wipes away inner peace and blessings.
🌿 Part 4: The Modern Psychological View
- Psychology frames envy as:
- Low self-esteem,
- Fear of being “left behind” socially,
- Shame masked as anger.
Therapies teach:
- Radical self-acceptance,
- Rebuilding self-worth independent of others.
🌿 Part 5: The Islamic / Spiritual View
Envy Is a Poison to Iman
- The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ warned:
“Beware of envy, for envy consumes good deeds just as fire consumes wood.”
(Abu Dawood)
- Islam teaches:
- Rizq (provision) is custom-designed for each soul.
- Comparing is a trap — Allah never makes mistakes in distributing blessings.
The cure is contentment (qana’ah) and sincere dua’ for others.
🌿 Part 6: Deeper Soul Layers — What Envy is Teaching You
Envy reveals:
- Where you doubt Allah’s justice,
- Where you measure your worth by other people’s journeys.
Healing happens when you recognize:
- Allah has written a unique story just for you.
- Someone else’s success does not rob you of your destiny.
Your rizq is written.
Your journey is sacred.
Your timing is perfect — in Allah’s Eyes.
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